Whatever you withhold love from will come back for that approving love. To Love unconditionally not only means to accept all people, but it also means excepting and allowing everything, every moment despite its difficulty. Do not resist anything that arises before you. Be curious about the negative things in your life, are you so sure they are so negative? After all, even the very atoms of the universe know opposites attract, yet we tend to think negativity must be thwarted at all cost.